Wishy Washy.

I can't stand all this wishy washy-ness and drama going on in my life with the people I love and care about. 

Here is my 2 cents, not that you asked:

You're this way because you're just never comfortable with your decisions. You're indecisive; you never know if it's the "right" decision or if there's a more "fitting" decision. The fact is, more often than not, you will always have one or two doubts. But, trust in yourself that you're making the right decision in that moment and go with it. 

All this does is make you sound uncertain, and discourage firm stances.

Now here is my solution:

Something that helps is thinking about the pros and cons or causes and effects of a decision. You don't have to make a list or anything, but sit down and think for a bit. What will the consequences be if you choose this over that? What will the next step be if you choose this over that? After thinking it over...the "best" decision out of your current options should be clear. Then you just need to feel confident and trust that you've made the right decision in that moment in time and follow through on it. Just trust yourself and your decision making skills.

Heres to the non wishy washy-ness from here on out.